Requested website:
http://www.jbyous.com/Headwear1.html
It was in another thread here that someone first pointed the sale and site out, but I cannot locate it right now.
As for why I think a tam is less military than a beret:
I do think they are very close, but the way I have seen US military wear the beret is very much fitted to the head and of a solid color.
The tam I picked has a toorie of contrasting color and a band of contrasting color, and it seems to hold more of it's own shape.
I suspect that if you are on the other side of the ocean, where the tam is the military hat this would be exactly reversed for you.
Either way, the differences are small, but they matter enough to influence my decision.
Joe