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    Hello, from (currently snow packed) Wichita, Kansas!

    Although I am not new to the Kilt, daily wear of the Kilt is new to me. I am excited and gratified to find this forum!
    I have a wife of 18 years and we have three children. My wife loves the Kilts – we both come from a rich Scottish heritage – and made the one I now have. Our children think it is a little strange that dad likes to wear his Kilt, but that is just dad.
    I want to find an affordable daily wear contemporary Kilt that supports a clean, sharp, confident and competent image without being overbearing. I am a conservative dresser who likes to look sharp at the office without a large investment in maintenance. I currently wear slacks and a button down shirt for most of my daily wear – at the office and around town – but want to make the move to Kilts. The only Kilt I have is more of a costume, rather light, and doesn’t hold creases well so I am not comfortable wearing it in public for anything other than a costume.
    While I do not mind stirring things up a bit, I try to make others around me comfortable and make every attempt at discretion and decorum that I can. As a Christian (I am Mormon), I believe that when there is a doubt or question about a rule – written or not – that it is better to get permission than seek forgiveness. To that end, I asked if the dress code at work would permit me to wear the Kilt.
    The answer came back as a (tentative) “No” because it does not fit in with their image of “professional attire.” Strange, I see all kinds of questionable t-shirts but the Kilt is un-professional? Anyway, I have stated that I will abide by the decision the company makes. I have also requested the opportunity to state my case fully and in person, expressing that rather than fight or argue I simply desire the opportunity to present my request in the best light.
    Having said all that, what advice can anyone provide a newbie?
    Thanks

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    Reverend Earl Trefor the Sublunary of Kesslington under Ox, Venerable Lord Trefor the Unhyphenated of Much Bottom, Sir Trefor the Corpulent of Leighton in the Bucket, Viscount Mcclef the Portable of Kirkby Overblow.

    Cymru, Yr Alban, Iwerddon, Cernyw, Ynys Manau a Lydaw am byth! Yng Nghiltiau Ynghyd!
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    ...from the far nw corner of Washington state!
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    proud descendant of the McReynolds/MacRanalds of Ulster & Keppoch, Somerled & Robert the Bruce.
    "Ah, here comes the Bold Highlander. No arse in his breeks but too proud to tug his forelock..." Rob Roy (1995)

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    Welcome from Victoria, British Columbia.

    There are a number of XMarkers in different professions who will hopefully chime in with suggestions as to how to dress in a kilt and be considered to be dressing professionally.

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    Hello dstarkravingmad,

    Welcome to XMarks from the other side of the Atlantic in Norfolk, England.

    Regards

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    I wonder if you folks understand what that might look like. A couple of decent and conservative pictures with jacket and tie might help.
    Rev'd Father Bill White
    Priest, Lover of God and People, Theologian, Student, Teacher, Philosopher, Dreamer, Humourist, Encourager of Hearts and Souls and a firm believer in the value of Dignity, Decency, and Duty.

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    from Oklahoma City!

    I am sure you will find a great Rawalpindi of knowledge, advice and experience here. I, for one, enjoy the look of a traditional highland gentleman. Definitely a conservative manner of dress.

    Best of luck and again, welcome.

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    You might check on the following link for different degrees of formality with one kilt, developed by Panache:

    http://www.xmarksthescot.com/forum/f...-attire-48691/

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    Good luck at work!
    Slainte

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