A very good friend of mine is getting married. This is neither his nor hers first. I inquired to the groom if it would be ok to come cilted. He said no problem. A few days later he says no that it would detract from the bride and she doesnt want that. I send pics of kilted wedding goers to the bride to be to show exactly what im gettin at....still No... Ok, says I. Weeks go by and I finally get to meet the new to be bride. Things are very pleasent and after the evening is over, she sends me a text explaining that she understands now what the kilt means to me and it would be fine to be kilted. Im a happy guy now. Next day Im having a chat with the groom to doubly make sure the kilt will be fine. He says he dont mind at all as long as Im there. He then starts to quiz me on the color of my jacket and shirt and such because i Need to match. Says I, why do i need to match?? It drones on from there into a whos on first episode.
Ill just cut to the chase and now Im standing up with the groom. This I did not know.
So my question to the rabble: Is it alright and in good taste for only one groomsman to be kilted in a wedding party?? My first inclination is to say "no" but my second thoughts are " who cares, the bride gave her permission"
Learned advice from the wisened would be greatly appreciated.