Historical Perspectives on Handfasting

[COScotsman]

The topic of handfasting has come up several places here on the forum. I recently saw this article on a social media feed. It provides some interesting historical perspective on the practice of handfasting. https://scotlandsgreateststory.wordp...g-eBL33drPBSzM

[Jock Scot]

There are several "hornets nests" that could be stirred up here. I have no interest in the religious aspect here, I am no legal expert and I have never seen hand fasting done, in Scotland or anywhere else and I know nothing about it.

So with my "cards in plain sight on the table" for all to see and I have absolutely no axe to grind on this subject whatsoever.

However, the thought does occur to me and let us just take Scottish laws of today as the example, so my question is:-

Is this ceremony of" hand fasting" regarded as a legally binding form of marriage in a Court of Law in Scotland, today?

[COScotsman]

No way intending to stir the pot. As far as I know, it is not legally binding today. (This from a friend in the Shetlands.) Our resident Scots might be able to add to this. It seems it is for romantic historical appearance only. As a minister, I have had many request for this with the assumption it was binding as is. Customs and traditions are interesting however.

[Jock Scot]

I have been a resident of Scotland for rather a long time!

Your answer is pretty much what I expected. But, that raises another question.

"Why do it?"

[Father Bill]

I have been a resident of Scotland for rather a long time!

Your answer is pretty much what I expected. But, that raises another question.

"Why do it?"

Jock, there are many ceremonies and rituals of various sorts that are sometimes appended to a more traditional marriage ceremony. If a licenced officiant is willing to sign the proper paper work, then any of them is legal since the ceremony is irrelevant to the registration.

Some people just like handfasting, sand ceremonies, unity candles and all sorts of things. No accounting for tastes or preferences. Once I sign off, they're married under the law. Religious implications are a whole different issue.

[Jock Scot]

Oh I quite understand what both of you are saying,what I have trouble with is this attachment to a ceremony that appears to be historical mumbo jumbo, dressed up as some as some sort of “must do” part of a marriage.

Please don’t misunderstand me, if that is what it takes for a couple to feel married then far be it for me to comment. Personally I got married for all sorts of good reasons, but religion was not one of them. So I do understand.

[OC Richard]

Some people just like handfasting, sand ceremonies, unity candles and all sorts of things.

And hiring a piper!!

Which I highly recommend

[Tobus]

Is this ceremony of" hand fasting" regarded as a legally binding form of marriage in a Court of Law in Scotland, today?

In most of the USA (where much of our law comes from English common law), there is such thing as a common law marriage. If two people agree to be married, represent themselves to others as being married, and live as husband and wife, they may be considered legally married - whether there is any official paperwork to that effect or not.

But Google tells me that common law marriage does not legally exist in Scotland. That actually sort of surprises me.

[Jock Scot]

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But Google tells me that common law marriage does not legally exist in Scotland. That actually sort of surprises me.

I didn't know that, but I am not surprised.

[MacKenzie]

Common law marriage here in the US can get pretty sticky.

A few states expressly recognize it and a few have expressly abolished it.

https://www.ncsl.org/human-services/...riage-by-state