Hi Gang,
My partner and I decided to stop waiting for the federal government to enact marriage equality, have decided to get "domestic partner"-ed, but have a full church wedding before God. He likes my kilts, and is actually of irish heritage. We are going to wear kilts for our wedding, and our best men have also agreed (with surprising little convincing -- well, my best man introduced me to the concept, and we discovered that my partner's best man is a distant realitive of William Wallace).

So i have a few questions. My partner and his best man actually have family tartans. My best man and I do not. Should we pick a single tartan for everyone to wear? Or should those who have family tartans wear their tartans, and the other two wear --- what?

I'm proably going to design (and build) modern kilts, but we want to use the tartans as accents (Ties, possibly capes or sashes etc.). We are still planing, although I'll finish building my 4th kilt tomorrow night, and it might serve as the prototype for wedding kilt.


Any suggestions would be very very appreciated.

Cheers
Chris