Indeed we can all get exasperated at times John and indeed the context in which words are used can make a lot of difference. We have both enjoyed each other' company in Dumfries pubs where tone of voice and facial expression can make a big difference as can what one is imbibing

It isn't disagreement that is the problem but how it is expressed and sometimes it appears confrontational as written. I do my best not to appear confrontational but sometimes my colleagues might not agree!

We really must meet up again soon at our favourite tosh - the one with Ferin in front of it!