i have been through numerous threads on the forum looking for answers. Many have come close, but perhaps i'm a bit more daft today than usual.

Looking at the Argyll jacket and vest in black barathea. i know this next paragraph might sound similar from past threads but it should change direction as you read on. For those short on time, please proceed to "Finally to the point".

While the Rabble groans, allow me to explain; Looking for a jacket and vest combination which would be appropriate for attending funerals, weddings and other events where a simple tweed jacket and vest might not do and a PC would be too much (i said similar, but not exact). Enter the Argyll jacket and vest in black barathea. In as much as i understand; it could be worn during the day with a blue shirt and regimental tie, day sporran &c. as day wear (morning wear). And also from much reading on this forum, it can also be dressed up with a white shirt and black tie for weddings, funerals and other such day time events, or with a white shirt, black bow tie and a dress sporran for...well, i honestly don't expect to be invited to an event where this would be considered appropriate.

Finally to the point:

Now this is where it gets complicated for me; a gauntlet cuff with shiny silver buttons might be a bit much for a funeral where black/dark clothing is usually normal for the situation and in a part of Canada where conservative thinking is predominant (conservative thinking + Kilt = i get it, i'll work something out), so could/should black round buttons be substituted? What about a Braemar or Crail cut with black buttons? Would any of these changes distract from the overall utilitarianism of the jacket/vest combination? Will the five button vest prevent the wearing of said combination at certain functions? Is there another piece of kit (or pieces) available which would be more appropriate? Is this too much to expect from one jacket/vest? i recall when we would remove the buttons on our uniforms for cleaning and pressing. Were did that little bit of wisdom disappear to? (deep breath) Or am i just picking fly dirt out of pepper? Would like to remain as close to traditional as possible, while also remaining compassionate to my Canadian brothers of different ethnicities. And yes, i've already thought of a black suit.

Thanks to all for reading and i look forward to your advise, criticisms and recommendations.

Jacques