It's sad when a church (not a religion) dictates your life so strongly. I mean, I might understand why a church would be uncomfortable with somebody wearing a sgian dubh, but to forbid a kilt?!?!?! That seems extreme and discriminatory. If the church was really devoted to God and Christianity, wouldn't they allow everybody and everything that wanted to worship? Personally, if a church tried to dictate my life (and my heritage is a BIG PART of my life too) I'd find a new church that accepted and welcomed be for who I am.