That's a bummer, McJore. There are a lot of high schools in the US that have the same narrow view. I've not heard of any colleges, though.

Did they give you a reason why they would not allow it? Is there a specific dress code published that they used? If you really feel strongly about it, you would have to know those things in order to challenge the college.

Also, if it was one person who made the call, you might be able to appeal the matter, using the college appeal mechanism, whatever that might be.

However, I think we would all understand if you decide to not push it.