I think that you are right about the different reactions for the different types of kilts. The traditional is universally recognized for what it is...a kilt. The casual kilt, even with a 3" black belt, still is viewed as a skirt. Interesting thing is that some in the first pub were wearing plaid shorts, white socks and sandals while a few others were in the heavy biker leathers and chains...in an "IRISH" pub. Location had a lot to do with it, there are some places where it is just best to make a discrete retreat to the door. "good ol boys" don't like different and CAN be dangerous.

Curious for me, but a learning curve. Probably the first time as a straight, WASP, conservative that I was the recipient of ignorance and bigotry. Maybe we all need to experience that to know how it feels?!
The Marine heritage led to anger and a desire to adjust some attitudes. Common sense told me this was NOT a time or place to start something.

Born and raised in the south, it didn't take much to become "different" based purely on outward appearances judged in one glance. It wasn't about who I was, but simply my appearance.

Lesson learned, sometimes its better not to go where ignorance abounds. On the other hand, it reconfirmed my desire to move to Asheville.