Having someone lift my kilt doesn't offend me. Offend is a very stong word! One definition used commonly is "To cause displeasure, anger, resentment, or wounded feelings"

I honestly don't see it as that big of a deal! While I don't seek out the kilt lift, I also don't think that it is the end of the world if some low-life wants to salve his or her curriosity. A kilt check would not cause displeasure, maybe a small amount of irritation. It does not cause anger, more like amusement. It does not cause resentment, I don't hold grudges for a small act like this, and finally it does not cause wounded feelings.

I think the whole world needs to be a little more thick skinned and not be so quick to accept offence. A kilt check will only hurt me if I allow it to.