I consider myself to be pretty fortunate, my fiance does not mind me wearing the kilt at all, and I think has gotten pretty comfortable with it. ( shortly after we met I had spiky purple hair so this is not to much of a stretch) the only exception to that is that she asked me not to wear it when we have our date night because there tends to be too much attention by those around us that is concerned with the kilt and it keeps us from being able to have a good date with people coming up all the time.