I understand where you are coming from and what you are trying to achieve and you have had some exellent advice from M. of R.. I would not get too wound up over silver buttons and what type of cuff you are going to have. Get what YOU like, as most other people won't know about what you are wearing anyway! Dash it all, we can't even agree on Xmarks, and we are supposed to have a vague idea what we are talking about! The one thought that I have is this:- you are standing out in the crowd by wearing the kilt so why get too worried about the jacket? All right, you don't want to look like a "lemon", that I quite understand, but wear the Argyll with the Argyll cuffs if you want to, by implication your are being Scottish(ish?) by the very fact that you are wearing the kilt! Have fun.