I took my kids to a movie a few months ago (I can't remember the specific movie) and we were all kilted. My oldest boy (Dorian, 11) got up to get some popcorn, and an old man next to me muttered "now is that a boy or a girl?" Before I could clench my fist :x the young woman next to him spoke up and said, "It's alright dad, he's probably Scottish, and shows his family pride by wearing a kilt." She then introduced herself and apologized for her dad's behavior, and we had a rather friendly chat together, while her dad kind of tried to disappear into his seat. Later, I overheard her explaining to him how different families have different customs. I wish I could remember what her name was...