1. Oh, that's a Pandora's Box! Whilst I'm sure most folks will say that a kilt is a kilt whether worn by a man or a woman, it's also true that the kilt is traditionally a male's garment. It's been worn by females for at least a generation or two now, though, so apparently it has been redefined as a unisex garment. In short, though, you'll find no solid agreement on the definition of "kilt", and it'll only be arguments trying to get one!

2. It's truly up to you. How much do you like him?