I do what the wife calls the genie pose.
arms folded across the chest. chest puffed out a bit too
stand there with your legs apart, lettin' the boys swing, you may look a bit strange but hey, who's gunna mess with a big guy in a skirt?
NO ONE!
also try this one hand on the buckle and the other over that hand.nice n casual.while walking I put one hand down the back waist band of my kilt palm out, the other is usually holding the wifes hand.