Bill, know that my heartfelt condolences go out to you and everyone that knew her. She sounds like a woman that chose to meet life head on which in my opinion is the most honorable way to live.

The pipes carry great emotion with them, and even more so when they're guiding someone home. I've yet to hear a rendition of "Amazing Grace" on the pipes without blubbering a bit. Take the piper up on whatever invitation was extended. You won't regret it.