You called?? I have the same "situation." I'm an olde geezer and am past caring what it looks like to others....I wear my kilts on my underbelly waist - same as I wear my jeans. Kiltmakers make them that way for me and I wear them that way. Sure have hoisted them up onto my "natural" waist and it takes about 30 seconds for the kilt to relocate itself to where it wants to be - on my jeans waist....under my belly....

While we may not be up to snuff for the purists, we can wear our kilts in comfort and reassure each other.