Don. I think you will find that the wait for your kilt is fairly normal for a made to measure kilt. I have just ordered a new kilt myself and do not expect to receive it until sometime in November or even early December. It all depends on where you stand in the queue and unfortunately I know that I am about #12 in my queue.
If you think the jonesing is hard now just wait until the last 2 or 3 weeks. It becomes unbearable then. But in the end it will be well worth the wait.
I have dealt with buy-a-kilt.com several times and I know they will send you your kilt just as soon as is humanly possible. They are an excellent company to deal with.