To me, it looks perfectly normal. Might be worn a little low, but, that's personal preference. I usually wear my trad kilts a little higher so the top of the kneecap is exposed. But, that's how a kilt normally looks. I think Oliver is correct in saying that she's just not used to it yet. Both the women in my family are the same way, even though I've been kilting since August of 2002. They still say that they're "warming up to it", and, in the case of my sister, wish that I would wear pants or shorts.
-J