I think I'm with Bear on this one, we have discussed really personal stuff, eg. I shared problems I've been having with my teenage daughter - deeply personal stuff. No doubt non members would view those posts, but since I can't see them I don;t care. The responses I recieved here were all encouraging and compassionate.

We've discussed in an adult way how to cope with toilets and kilts.

If there are even more personal issue you need advice on then we are all here for you to respond by private email.

John, if I may say, you have not been shy about discussing deeply felt issues, I admire that. I hope we have all been sensitive to your issues, I believe we have.
Good to have you here John!