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It's a relatively new thing -- a bone thrown to the groom to give him the illusion that he has maintained some semblance of control over the planning of the wedding.
Aye.
I always tell a young couple that the purposes of a church wedding are first, to praise God and ask for a blessing as you start life together in a new relationship. Second, I act as an agent of the province for five minutes and register the marriage. Third (speaking to the groom and pointing at the bride) it's to keep her and her mother happy. You keep your mouth shut and at the end of the day you get to take her home.
They always laugh at that and laughter makes the other discussions go more easily.
Rev'd Father Bill White: Mostly retired Parish Priest & former Elementary Headmaster. Lover of God, dogs, most people, joy, tradition, humour & clarity. Legion Padre, theologian, teacher, philosopher, linguist, encourager of hearts & souls & a firm believer in dignity, decency, & duty. A proud Canadian Sinclair with solid Welsh and other heritage.
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