Compac, my wide belt thing is a lot the same. I am not comfortable cinching down the kilt to do all the "holding" in it's structure. Therefore the cinched wide belts. Too loose and when I enter or leave the high drivers seat of my pickup truck I end up playing "spin the kilt". The act of sitting or standing should not dishevel your attire to the point you have "primp" in the middle of a parking lot.