Quote Originally Posted by Really a McQueen View Post
One option, depending on HER plans, would be to go Saxon dress for the wedding itself, then the two of you change into tartan garments for the reception. You might be able to get her to go along with this idea, and maybe even have you piped in as a couple. But remember, this is her day, and you want her to remember it fondly.
This was how my first wedding worked 40 years ago. I wore a cream formal jacket, dark green formal trousers, a dark green velvet bow tie, a light green frilly shirt, and dark green patent leather shoes for the wedding. I changed into my kilt prior to the reception. Everybody was happy!