Ron, how true. A beard helps out big time. About 10 years ago, sometimes I'd be ma'amed even when I had short hair and was wearing jeans and a t-shirt. Granted, I'm not skinny, but, it should be kinda obvious that I am a guy. When I am in jeans, every once in a while I do get a double take, especially now that my hair is getting long enough for a 'tail again. But, it seems like when I'm kilted, nobody double takes, except for women who like the kilt.
-J