Well, I did it.

[davedove]

It sounds to me that the problem is not you in a kilt, it's the attention you will draw to yourself, and to her by association. There's not a whole lot you can do about that. The only way that her mind may be changed is if people start telling you how good you look, and how good you look together. Of course, if you don't get out in public, that will never happen. One piece of advice is to always look your best when you do wear the kilt. That way at least you're presenting a good image.