Quote Originally Posted by LordDamax
But what you said there about your wife sure shed some light on mine. Thanks ;)
Yah, shoore, you betcha....LOL... The bill's in the mail.

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Bubba, I figure that if I want to wear a kilt, I'll wear a kilt, but with some limits on it.

For example, this past Saturday night we went to my wife's 30th high school reunion. Because it was a special night for her and I knew she'd be more comfortable with me in slacks, I wore pants. She said something about me not needing to be the center of attention all the time, and she was right. I DON'T need to be the center of attention all the time. It didn't kill me to put on a pair of slacks for the evening, and she appreciated it and we had a good time at the reunion.

That's what I mean by using common sense and kindness. I can take her feelings and emotions into account without sacrificing my masculinity or independence. Now, if we're going to an event that's not "her" event...if it's something we both planned or it's an event centered around an activity that's "mine", well....if I want to wear a kilt, I'll wear a kilt. If I don't, I won't.

If wearing a kilt makes me happy, then I'll wear it. If it doesn't, I won't.

Beyond that, you're right. No point in getting too deep about it. *grin*