Divorce in my future?

**Mike1** · 21st October 05, 02:43 PM

Mac, I can relate to how you still miss her (been there), but the one thing we always have to remember is that when we are standing and looking at a closed door, we are missing all the other doors that are opening around us.

**MacConnachie** · 22nd October 05, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by Mike1

Mac, I can relate to how you still miss her (been there), but the one thing we always have to remember is that when we are standing and looking at a closed door, we are missing all the other doors that are opening around us.

Thanks, Mike. You're correct, of course. Hindsight is 20-20, and looking back on those times, I now see some opportunities presented themselves which I was too blinded to see whilst in the midst of it. Would've, could've, should've . . . (sigh)

**Mike1** · 23rd October 05, 04:31 PM

Originally Posted by MacConnachie

Hindsight is 20-20, and looking back on those times, I now see some opportunities presented themselves which I was too blinded to see whilst in the midst of it. Would've, could've, should've . . . (sigh)

I suspect that there are more than just the two of us that wear that scar. ;)

**Archangel** · 23rd October 05, 08:18 PM

One couple I know, I don't know their story, his wife set all the password and limitations on his computer, with his okay. I think it was a promise keepers' thing.

That's general advice, my thought is that the computer is a smoke screen. I've also learned not to take all the info from one side of the pair, sorry.