I just hang my kilt up on the shower curtain (on a hanger) while I take a shower...it seems to relax the wool , and after Im done in the shower I just pull my fingers through the pleats top to bottom and they come out fine never have pressed my kilt, never have taken it to a dry cleaners either

some woolite, and a bath tub works good to clean it, hell its even taken out Guinness spills on the front apron!

Scott