To be serious...perhaps if you are going to meet the little dude you should plan to do it in a very casual way the first time...as if you and the young lady "just happened to run into each other...we know each other from school" and "say, if you have a few extra minutes, why don't we stop and get a cup of coffee...". Just think that the casual approach takes any pressure off every one and would let the two of you feel out how the kid is reacting to it all.

Best

AA

ps: ...and I envy you your youth...if I were in a situation where I was meeting a girl my age that had children, the children would probably be in their thirties!