Derek,

I think you just have to be patient! I've had my chocolate brown Workman's UK since Dec 2003, have worn it like there's no tomorrow, washed it several times BY HAND and it is still quite stiff. I believe it is the nature of that canvas-like fabric never to really soften up. My first UK, a caramel Workman's, from Nov 2000 (which has now been archived within my Kilt Kollection) did soften up quite a lot - it also faded almost to 'cream' - but that was made from a different, and less robust, material.

I wash my UKs by hand because the care instructions advise using a 'cold wash', but my washing machine does not have such a facility. In fact, I think British machines do not have a 'cold wash' facility by default - none of my neighbours machines have it, nor do those of any friends I have asked. Does yours? I don't have a drier - far too wasteful of precious energy - so hang dry everything, outdoors if possible.

As for fabric softener: I have tried 'Comfort' and 'Lenore', in fact I always add a little of one or the other to the final rinse, but they seem to have no noticeable effect on Duc-Canvas!!

My advice? Let wear-and-tear break down the stiffness.