I hold the door, give up my seat, and other curtious things because that's the way I was raised. My parents taught me to do that. If left to myself I would not be that way. The thing is today's generation is being left to themselves to "find their individuality" Well, unfortunelty that is usually selfishness. Today's generation has been left to discover how selfish they (or I should say "we", I'm only 21) can be. This generation is all about being ourselves and expression, things like that, but not a whole lot about others. It's sad.