Quote Originally Posted by Robin
Maybe not nice, cruel, narrow minded or whatever, but give in...it's her wedding and she makes the rules...c'est la vie
I would strongly disagree with you. After all, if the wedding was just about the bride, there would be no point in having a groom, would there?

If Dave agrees to his bride's wishes, that's fine. But if wearing a kilt at his own wedding is important to him, I think it is fair to ask that she give some ground towards a compromise. If she is entirely unwilling to bend... frankly, I don't think that is a good sign regarding their future life together.