Not to worry, you aren't alone, I've heard that "Nice skirt ******" come from the anonymity of a crowd as well but I just turned around and asked "What coward just said that?" and of course there was no reply so I ended it with, "That's what I thought, just another coward". and in so doing I got the last word in.

As has been stated so many times you have to remember that those creeps that pull that sort of thing are doing it because they don't have the intestinal fortitude that it takes to march to the tune of a different, if somewhat distant drummer and are afraid of you because you do have the courage to break out of the mold.

Chris.