The rules just aren't the same for men and women (at least here in Ohio). I have been kilt checked numerous times (even right in front of my wife). I have been photgraphed by cameraphone (called up-skirting here). My friend was assaulted by his wife in front of witnesses, locked himself in his car without retaliating, called the police, and summarily escorted off his property.
He filed a restraining order against her, but HE is not allowed on HIS property.
Sometimes its hard to understand.