Quote Originally Posted by arrogcow
And my personal experience is that is holds for Army too (Army officer - see earlier post). You can get guys to talk to someone who wasn't there, but it ain't easy and it always is brief.

Adam
Adam, you got it. If they weren't there they'll never get it and if they were they don't need to be told. Took me a long while to get over things and be able to sleep without nightmares and I just don't care to resurrect it all.