Adam, you got it. If they weren't there they'll never get it and if they were they don't need to be told. Took me a long while to get over things and be able to sleep without nightmares and I just don't care to resurrect it all.
Amen to that Brother
(as we use to say "don't mean nothing")
But I did find that talking to other Vets did help make the Demons go away