My condolences, Rom. My mother passed away at a similar age, and I was with her when she passed. It is always difficult, and it was before I discovered kilts, so I was unable to wear my Gordon kilt to be with her. As for the paperwork and such, it can seem overwhelming. I know, I was executor for my mother's estate and Administrator for my uncles when he died a few years ago. Just keep working at your own pace and you will get through it. One of my most difficult tasks, was going through all of my mother's things in her empty house, inventorying everything and then assigning a monetary value to each group of items.