Quote Originally Posted by Graham
Well Dave, after all this advice, what do you plan to do?

for me it would be easy...I'd just tell her that I own no trousers...kilt or naked, that's the choice.
I respected her wishes and wore trousers and a blazer. I have no problem wearing trousers, as I switch between trousers and kilts all the time. It just kind of irked me that she made the request, and then topped it off by asking where the kilt was.


Quote Originally Posted by Caradoc
However, I also think that a goodly number of wedding guests these days are very inappropriately informal in their dress - showing up in dirty sneakers, torn jeans, and a T-shirt is rude, I think, where even making the effort for slacks, a dress shirt, and a tie would be minimal.
I will definitely agree with this. There were several people there who were wearing jeans and casual shirts, and very few of us had on jackets and ties, with a couple of suits present. I enjoy dressing up from time to time, but it seems like most people feel inconvenienced if they have to put on a clean shirt.