Freud, were he alive and kilted up, would probably tell you that Stan secretly wants to wear the kilt too, he's just afraid that other men would hassle him like he's hassling you.

Sounds like you're showing him well how to deal with such flak. Hand him a few kiltmaker's cards or email him a list of kiltmaker's websites.

If he hassles you again, just say, "You know you want one too." and see if he doesn't blush.

No person's opinion of my kilt is more important than my freedom to wear the kilt.

Ron