My wife has been really great about everything. Yet she and I both are new to me wearing a kilt but she has been really supportive and even told me "It looks good." with an approving smile. She help me found the Scottish Firefighters Association and has been awesome about that as well. I don't know what I'd do if I was in some of you guys' situations. I think I would be discouraged as well. But knowing me it wouldn't last long and I'd be trying again. So to all my bretheren STAY KILTED!! int: