Thanks all for your well wishes.

Grant I have decided that the recent changes in my life will allow me to be who I want to be, for the first time in a long time, without judgement.
So although it is not the best way to be kilted 24/7 and certainly not the way I would have chosen, it has happened. One of the first realizations I had was that now I could wear my kilt(s) wherever whenever. Also since walking away I have found that my disposable income has increased, so guess where some of it will go.

All in all I think it was something that had been coming for a long time we just had to face it, so really I am not all that hurt we still talk and have as good a relationship as one can expect.