Quote Originally Posted by arrogcow View Post
Morning coats. Arrrghh. I have to drive 700 miles and then wear pants. I'm gonna beat that boy when I see him.
It's not your wedding. It's theirs.

You have the choice of doing it their way, or not going. It's up to them to decide what the wedding party is wearing.

Now, that said... it does open up some interesting possibilities for the toasts later at the reception.