As a woman Im lost .Id rather have my man take me on a bike ride all day then wear a kilt later on best of both worlds.Both of those things make a man sexy as .....well can not see the problem as to her not wanting you to wear them.However I agree a marriage and love is more important than any clothes ever could be.I suggest sitting down talking to her asking why she feels that way (not being ugly at the time)and ask why she doesnt want you to wear them.Sometimes a good talkcan work wonders.