You're bride is totally right about the dress.
I planned a wedding once (dodged that particular bullet too)
Yes, I drove all around me crazy... this is an example

Music Person: So what do you wanna walk down the Isle to?
String: dunno, pick something.
MP: what do you mean you dunno!!!!!!! you have to have an opinion
String: you have good taste, too bad my sister had the exit the Imperial March from Star Wars, If i do too it's so copying.
MP: I'm going to talk to your (insert slightly rude name for ex here)

I delegate, I hate planning, i don't care about flowers, I didn't really want anyone to stand up with me, I was on the cheap... but I still must have that unique dress, and my solution was to make it myself. My mom called me the anti-bridezilla, of course she plans things like I do, call people and tell them to bring pizza and say it's a party.