I'm sorry to hear of this situation. I hope everything works out for the better, and everyone involved learns something positive as a result.

That being said, it still surprises me that there are people out there who, upon seeing a man in a "skirt," do not stop and think, "hey, maybe it's a kilt," even if they are not well-versed in identifying a kilt. I guess I underestimate the intelligence of the general public, but I would still think that the average person would know that kilts do exist, and not just in Scotland.

from beautiful central Kentucky! Try to stay warm.