Here's the only time my kilt has been lifted- There is this guy that I work who is convinced that I'm a cross dresser. He decided that he should put his hand up my kilt. THAT guy offends my because he's an a*****e and goes out of his way to belittle people. If it's all in good fun- as with my two or three friends- then it doesn't bother me. If it were a complete stranger, that would be upsetting. I've never had that happen, though.