I find it extremely disrespectful and my reaction will be severe, even if it is just a friend going too far. Unless it's someone who I want to be accessing the goods (and since I'm single at the moment that's limited only to medical examinations) I view it as a violation of my rights and quite possibly an attack.

But what is worse to me is the notion that I shouldn't be offended. If other people are ok with it, fine, good for them. But I am not and the idea that I should either just accept it or that somehow the fact that I am a man in skirt makes it acceptable when under different circumstances the same action would have the offender on a registry for the rest of his life, that just makes my blood boil.

Luckily I don't spend much time around people who are likely to do this, and for the most part the biggest offender is the wind.