I've always felt it better to take the high road. Even if it's obvious that someone is trying to be insulting, what good does it do to get upset about it. By doing that, you have given the other person the power in the encounter.
I don't believe in getting confrontational unless I or someone else is in danger. People insulting or laughing at me doesn't really bother me that much. I know who I am and someone else's insecurity is not going to change that.
I think a lot of people here have to grow a little thicker skin. Sometimes when someone says "nice skirt" they really are trying to give a compliment, but don't know any better. Just say thanks, and if you can, gently correct them. That way, instead of a confrontation, you can have an intellectual exchange.
For those who are trying to insult you, ignore them. They're not worth the trouble.
We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. - Japanese Proverb
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