Quote Originally Posted by Matty Ross View Post
As I said if I wear this kilt where it is the most comfortable it hangs really low. If I pull it up to the center of my knees It would be around my chest.
Looks like you need a shorter kilt. Can you get that one hemmed?

If you want a tartan kilt that can be worn low on the hips and is custom made to your measurements, take a look at the Casual made by USA Kilts.
See here: http://www.usakilts.com/store/cas_kiltpage.php

If you want to wear a kilt higher up at your natural waist and find a belt uncomfortable, the only alternative I can think of is suspenders (braces).